Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Monogamous Sinner

Lionia coined the term polygamous sinner the other day and I was so intrigued with the term that I took it a step further and coined the term monogamous sinner.

As you can very well guess, because the terms are somewhat self explanatory, a polygamous sinner is someone that is having an affair with multiple people, excluding one's spouse of course, at the same time, so it would stand to reason that a monogamous sinner is one that is interested in hmmm, extracurricular activates with one person at time.

I fall into the latter category and as of late, neither one of the categories, so you, my dear readers, participants and observers get to reap the benefit of my situation at this point in time.

Why do I even mention all this? No reason really, I just liked the terms and wanted to use them somehow, and to share a little, now you know a little more about me. :)

Today, I don't know what to write about. No, I do not feel obligated to write something everyday but, sometimes it seems to some in spurts so you get the benefit of my spurtations (my own word).

I've got at least two topics going on right now, of course there's Road Trip, which I need to finish documenting, and then the safe internet practices thing and to be honest I'm not really feeling that at the moment.

I think what I'm feeling today is disenchantment... Yeah I can hear you now, "great another bitch session", well I don't have anyone else to bitch to at the moment so you get to listen, or Not, you can click over to something else. Ya gotta love the Internet.

Anyway, yesterday, I had an offer to change jobs, and of course being the expert negotiator that I am I told them I would like to think about it for a day or two and of course this would give me a chance to talk it over with W.

You know how much I work, I think I covered that in my last bitch session, anyway this would mean that I could work less and yes it would mean less money, but not a whole lot, the long and short of it was W wasn't too happy about it, then today she plays the "you work too hard card", and this really sent me over the edge. I mean damned if I do and damned if I don't.

I'm like WTF. I'm willing to admit I'm not the sharpest crayon in the box but, I do have an above average IQ, and I'm going to take care of the things that need to be taken care of... House payment, food, water, electricity, car payments, cable TV and phone... You get the idea.

Yes I will do what needs to be done to make it work, but sometimes it would be nice to have a little support. See now why I say I feel like a plow horse? Sometimes it would be nice if someone would just get on top from time to time.

Well that's my bitch for today, no matter what I do or think about doing it ain't right, or that's the way it seems. Thanks for listening , I feel better now.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Yeah, this resonates with me too. Being the primary breadwinner in my marriage as well, I get similar "damned either way" treatment from my husband. He loves the money and the comforts afforded by my semi-constant workload. But when I can't or won't just drop everything at his whim, suddenly "that damned job expects too much". Never mind that "that damned job" is paying our "damned" mortgage! :)